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What Women Want: In The Bedroom

Writer's picture: Jamonica ShoalsJamonica Shoals

Updated: Feb 25, 2022

Thanks to a lot of reddit users and personal experience for this information!


Photo: Roman Odintsov

No woman is the same! That phrase rings true in manu situations. In the bedroom, each has their own personal needs and desires. Some women will be very vocal with you about what they want and how they want it while some will not.


If it’s your first time together in the bedroom it can be tricky to know what your partner is into. No one wants to assume, and you definitely don’t want to underperform...unless you’re that guy...or gal!

Men are typically known to be the alpha. They like to take charge and dominate the bedroom, at least that’s how history tells it, and a lot of women are into that. But, when you are taking charge you got to know what you are doing and who you are doing it with. I have supplied a few universal tips to keep in mind when pleasing a woman. Things that will help her get off and leave her with a great impression of you!


One IMPOARTNANT thing to remember about women and sex is that women like sex too!!! Some women may enjoy sex way more than their counterparts.

Foreplay

Fellas, don’t be afraid of the clitoris. With that being said, teasing will go a long way. It’s a top favorite pastime in the bedroom. For some people the longer the lead up the better the top off. One Reddit user wrote:


Something my boyfriend started doing recently that I LOVE is that as soon as he notices I'm close to an orgasm, he stops and teases me for a few seconds, then goes again… So much tension is released.

Touching/Kisses on the neck

Don’t be too shy to touch her; Grab her hips, boobs, thighs whatever! Kiss the neck, not just the mouth. A woman wants a partner who is aware, involved, and present. There is nothing better than a tentative lover. Simple touches arouse way more than you think. It’s a way to show you are enjoying being with her.


Communication

When we say communication, we don’t mean dirty talk, even though that may be ok too. Communication is asking “are you ok”, “do you like that”. Ask your partner if they are into trying new things and if the position is ok. Also, listen to what your partner is saying. If she is enjoying it and using the phrase “right there” for goodness sake...keep it right there.

Make Some Noise!

Men don’t be afraid to moan. A bump on a log is not sexy, it’s not sexy for men and it’s not sexy for women. A lot of women get off from the grunts and moans of their partners. It makes a woman feel good knowing they are causing you so much pleasure. There is nothing better than watching and hearing your partner orgasm.

Don’t Expect A Pornstar…

Porn is entertainment not all of it is real!



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